
First released: 2013
About
Disc 1
- 1.Introduction0:56
- 2.Being in Relationship4:07
- 3.Why Be Coupled?6:16
- 4.Motivated by Tragedy4:51
- 5.Some Facts About People15:59
- 6.What Nature Wants7:50
- 7.What Our Culture Wants8:06
- 8.A "No-Fault" System2:44
Disc 2
- 1.Introduction0:46
- 2.Attachment and Our Primary Relationship4:05
- 3.Three Types of Attachment Styles2:17
- 4.The Island14:48
- 5.The Wave8:33
- 6.The Anchor6:35
- 7.Perspective on Your Attachment Style4:12
- 8.Airplanes and Submarines6:50
- 9.Two Nervous Systems Interacting7:31
- 10.Processing Speed: Hares and Tortoises2:16
- 11.Threat in Relationship4:48
Disc 3
- 1.Introduction0:48
- 2.Not All Brains Are Alike8:00
- 3.Your Partner, the Island8:42
- 4.Making Your Island Worse4:59
- 5.Making Your Island Better4:50
- 6.Your Partner, the Wave4:29
- 7.How to Make Your Wave Worse and Better3:15
- 8.Anchor Partners5:04
- 9.Losses and Traumas3:28
- 10.Managing Emotional States2:58
- 11.What Is Your Partner Good At?4:31
- 12.Common Deficits9:07
Disc 4
- 1.Introduction0:48
- 2.Who Are You as a Couple?10:52
- 3.Maintaining a Long-Term Relationship5:58
- 4.Types of Agreements5:57
- 5.Repairing Injuries6:22
- 6.The Danger of Threat6:53
- 7.Building Secure-Functioning Relationships4:08
- 8.Mutually Amplified Positives9:24
- 9.Reviewing the Tools You've Learned5:48
Disc 5
- 1.Introduction0:47
- 2.Separations and Reunions13:55
- 3.Inside/Outside Rituals3:56
- 4.The Eyes Have It5:29
- 5.The Rule of Thirds6:56
- 6.Changing Your Partner's Emotional State6:12
- 7.Working With Conflicts16:17
- 8.The Unintended Messages We Send9:08
- 9.How Islands, Waves, and Anchors Fight7:56
Disc 6
- 1.Introduction0:48
- 2.Lost Causes6:45
- 3.The Brain Loves Novelty5:24
- 4.Investing in Your Partner5:22
- 5.What Hasn't Worked in the Past4:23
- 6.Sex and the Brain7:46
- 7.Things to Remember4:27
- 8.What You Will Become5:43
- 9.The Purpose of Being Together9:04
